Please welcome all the possibility and joy that is Yared!

I've decided to grow our family by adopting a toddler boy from Ethiopia. I must start the process over so this will probably be another year and a half before we meet him but I'm thrilled and can't contain myself any longer. MUCH MORE TO COME.

One of his names will be Yared.

Yared (amharic meaning "sent from heaven" since my dad will be a main factor in this ;)

and to the right is St. Yared

Saint Yared (April 25, 505 – May 20, 571) was a semi-legendary Ethiopian musician credited with inventing the sacred music tradition of the Ethiopian Orthodox Church and Ethiopia's system of musical notation. Yared is thought to be the first to write musical notes centuries before Westerners did. His father died when he was seven, and his mother sent him to be raised by his uncle Gidewon, a priest who taught religious studies. A legend describes Yared gaining musical insight through interaction with three birds (birds are good luck - right mom ;)

Christmas 2009 - Photo Gallery

Don't you hate when your camera breaks right before your first Christmas with your child? Thank you friends and mom who captured some wonderful memories for us. Presenting Christmas 2009.

LT LOVES Mimi

Photo and video editing at www.OneTrueMedia.com

Christmas Reflection

It's true, kids change everything about the holidays. Everything is better, sweeter, funnier and worth all the fuss. I also realize traditions matter and I think I will make a promise for 2010 and beyond to better integrate Ethiopian culture & community.

I do have many books. I hang beautiful maps and Ethiopian art. We pray about Ethiopia every night... but it's not enough. I need to figure out the difference between learning/appreciating AND feeling/being. I need to immerse her in the Ethiopian community more.

Maybe because my referral anniversary is so close to xmas. Or maybe because I just can't get Ethiopia out of my head. I sit here tonight feeling like it is my goal for holidays to connect the wonder of xmas here with the soul & ritual of the celebrating, Ethiopian style. I'm actually very happy that this xmas - our first together-was almost like a test run because she's still too young to understand what it all meant. Because I want us to be connected to her roots in a significant way. I still am trying to figure out what that means. And how she can feel not just hear or see cultural elements but feel the pride. Any one who follows my blog knows that when I need to feel connected to Ethiopia, I search for art. I imagine what the artist was feeling when they created it and what they wanted to leave for the consumer to feel. This makes me feel profoundly connected to the culture. I loved this Christmas for reminding me that Ethiopia always will share a seat at our table as well as our hearts.

The 3 paintings say Christmas to me.

Yadesa Bojia (my friend ;)

Wosene Worke Kosrof

Mezgebu Tessema

I'd love to hear how other parents included Ethio culture in their celebrations.

p.s. Heather, church is a good idea Sunday

Referral Anniversary

It was just 1 year ago today that I got the life changing call at 12:20pm in my office. Coincidentally I was wearing my Africa T-Shirt.

Would you have ever guess it would have been so close to Christmas. I looked into this tiny babes eyes and saw my daughter. Immediately felt peace and familiarity. Needless to say, I'll never get a better xmas present.

What a difference a year makes!!! I had to post this photo cause it makes me smile. She blows be away everyday. I never dreamed it would be so powerful and rewarding.

21 Months (tomorrow)

I love this picture. It's from several months back (thanks Chris) but it captures everything beautiful about Liv Tunsitu. We're approaching 8 months together which is HUGE for a child who's been in the care of 4 different people/situations the first year of her life. She's a special one and I feel incredibly blessed that we're family.

Today a

Appeared :)

Our 1st Holiday party together

Yesterday we celebrated the Holidays at Jlo's House and had a blast. LT got to wear one of my outfits that my grandma made for me to wear as a babe (nice for my mom to save for us) and we got the good fortune of capturing most of the kids together. Aren't they a handsome bunch!?!

Perfect Parent Moment

Today while Tuns was at the park I went out and got a xmas tree and put it up and hung up stockings. For those of you who know me well - you know it's probably the same result of a third graders work but Tunsi walked in the door and immediatedly grew bright eyed and opened mouthed and looked in awe and meowed the sweetest high pitched "woooooooooooowwwwww".

PPM.

Thanksgiving Vacation

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Medicine

I have tried over and over and over and over and over and over and over with no success.  LT does not take medicine well.  She also has a masterful detection system when slipped in food or drink.  She also has proved that she can make herself gag and throw up when even faced with the thought of medicine.  This has been impossible and really has taken a toll on me as I'm trying clear up several bugs of hers.

1 hour ago.  I felt on top of the world.  All seemed right because for the first time in 6 months my daughter had giardia meds in her belly.  I first tried in a milkshake and she refused.  Then I thought I'd play a game with the medicine dropper and she amazingly participated for the first time ever.  The meds went down and I felt relief.  Sigh.

Then several minutes later................................she walked towards me with a strained red face and then started to throw up.  It is not pleasant to see your little babe throw up.

Because my babe does not even take Motrin straight I've had to be very creative and have tried the following:

--the old fashion way (forcing it down)

--yogurt drinks

--espresso syrup

--chocolate milk

--grape juice

--milkshake

--milk

--gatorade

--apple/carrot juice

I'm tired, exhausted and frustrated.  Any ideas are welcome.  

My babe is 20 months today

This is one of my referral photos. She was 9 months and 14lbs.

Today at 20 months.
She's sweet sweet sweet with a strong tough spirit. Loves to learn and grow. Her determination and will is showing up in strong ways (nice way of saying approaching two). I feel like I need to make sure I am keeping up with her developmental growth as the change feels so fast. LT came to me at 13 months and just barely was sitting up by herself (not crawling). And now we've been home just under 7 months and she's progressed leaps and bounds. Children are amazing. I can't wait to see who she is at 2.

Confession

Is it wrong to put your wonderful angel of a daughter asleep 45 mins. early because you're exhausted. Well she must have been too because not a peep from her...just hit the bed and went asleep. I'll blame it on getting darker earlier not me needing a break.  Hoping this doesn't result in an early rise.....



more pics from the desert trip...

Fun in Palm Springs

with Grandma and Uncle Kris (LT = 19months). We visited the Living Desert and Loved it. Giraffes, Zebras, East African animals and beautiful desert gardens.

Friends.

Thanks M & T for a fabulous day.  Loving the summer weather and generous hospitality.  I feel so thankful that we have so many amazing families with Ethiopian children within a stones throw.